Lindsay I am so sorry you had to go through all of this. We don't know until we know. And yes, it was people who did this to you. I am happy you know that now. Blessings to you. ❤️
Oh, girl. 🫶 I hear you. Insurmountable debt, years spent on housework, trying to get through schooling to career and encountering administrative delays that I couldn't afford to wait out... because he wouldn't finance the gap... working full time and managing kids and chores only to be told "you were never an equal partner, Kathy." 🤷♀️ I think the arrangement is just and centered, I like Moms at home. But we deserve a financial safety net that doesn't depend on one man. Our labor goes unpaid. And then we are told we didn't plan for retirement. It's nasty. Thank you for naming the gap, good read. 🌷 You deserve peace. ☮️
I agree that Moms deserve a social safety net independent of their husbands and families of origin. It provides dignity, humanity, and financial stability! It should be the bare minimum! But even more than that, I think Christianity and other religions have a major repentance they need to do in the names of women everywhere. We are not playthings, we are human. We aren't objects, incubators, or scapegoats. We are people. We should be treated as more than what we can endure! Much love and thanks for the comment. I'm sorry if you went through this too. 🫶🏻
Lindsay I am so sorry you had to go through all of this. We don't know until we know. And yes, it was people who did this to you. I am happy you know that now. Blessings to you. ❤️
Thank you so much for your sweet comment. It took me years to name the problem, but I'm grateful to have found it. 🖤
Oh, girl. 🫶 I hear you. Insurmountable debt, years spent on housework, trying to get through schooling to career and encountering administrative delays that I couldn't afford to wait out... because he wouldn't finance the gap... working full time and managing kids and chores only to be told "you were never an equal partner, Kathy." 🤷♀️ I think the arrangement is just and centered, I like Moms at home. But we deserve a financial safety net that doesn't depend on one man. Our labor goes unpaid. And then we are told we didn't plan for retirement. It's nasty. Thank you for naming the gap, good read. 🌷 You deserve peace. ☮️
I agree that Moms deserve a social safety net independent of their husbands and families of origin. It provides dignity, humanity, and financial stability! It should be the bare minimum! But even more than that, I think Christianity and other religions have a major repentance they need to do in the names of women everywhere. We are not playthings, we are human. We aren't objects, incubators, or scapegoats. We are people. We should be treated as more than what we can endure! Much love and thanks for the comment. I'm sorry if you went through this too. 🫶🏻